That is a very big question. 

I believe happiness isn’t a single state that you reach and remain there. Happiness is an extreme, and no one can maintain an extreme emotion for long. Instead I am searching for a certain contentment - a calming, a stillness, an excitement, finding pleasure in life, holding onto love, a satisfaction, a sense of place, feeling at home in your skin. All those things take time, and I am still learning, but I am sure I am heading in the right direction. x